There's a cat that hangs around my complex. Her owners abandoned her when they got kicked out for not paying the pet deposit. ~_~

Lately her stomach has been getting really swollen and hard, and she seems to have a panicked tone to her mewing. We thought she was pregnant but apparently she's fixed.

I don't have the money to take this cat to the vet. Anyone know of help for her?

For the BDSM/Kinkster, Sit on Kinky Santa's Lap and tell him what you want for XXXmas! Thanks FetLife. http://fetlife.com/sit_on_santas_lap

Karaoke is finally comfortable--in public---! because my voice is, at least, ambiguously gendered when i sing... and i love the men in my life. And my kid is awesome. And I'm switching to a class where I'll be safe within my study group :)

^_^

to everyone for your support, here and elsewhere... that and a lot of sleep has me feeling slightly better now. I'm sicker than I thought, I'm going to the doctor's tomorrow i hope.

tired of being
the phoenix, the storm is old
i crave slow waters

I agreed after much manipulation to abrogate my own rights.

That is wrong. I'm not taking care of God's Creation when I do that.

I'm walking away and into AA. I also found a good therapist.

I am so deeply grateful to leareth26  and all the friends who have put up with my anxiety and codependency and blindness. I hope everyone understands that I withdrew to try to keep the crazy off of them.

Special thanks to hypanebliss  for the ugly truth all those years ago. You probably don't care but I held it against you and I'm sorry.

If you're reading this, I love you.

I met the lady who runs this company, she seemed very cool and the production sounds like it is going to be awesome. These kids have been working their butts off, so come support independent business, kids, theatre!

Alex Awesome's Drag King Spectacular- A Benefit for Top Surgery

"Help Alex Have Surgery"

Reply to this meme by yelling "Words!" and I will give you five words that remind me of you. Then post them in your LJ and explain what they mean to you.

From lola_mccrary 

Determination - the strength to put your actions behind your words
Parent - Bodyguard, Supporter, Provider, Encourager
Lover - Com/Passionate, Respectful, Caring, Attentive
Believer - See Determination. Add study and thought, hopefully wisdom in choosing said words.
Student - See Believer.

This is Breanna, my friend in Canada. I hope I can have her down to perform someday.

I kinda feel like i have this 'emerging skill' of putting the oxfords on. I still forget sometimes. I am trying for a balance where I honor and express my feminine side but still behave as the accomplished professional man I want to be.

It's not just that you must be the change you want to see-- to do that, you've got to see the change that you can be.

I haven't blogged much lately because I've been working at getting a non-profit going--details here (as well as me blogging about mostly-trans, some-gay issues and comprehension).

One day I want to write a book about the history of GLBT culture that shows the ways discrimination shapes the cultures, how the discriminators against use these effects to undercut things further, and why it's powerful in the first place.

In the meantime, good press will be gained. It will. Yes. There is a plan.

Nobody gonna break-a my stride, nobody gonna slow me down--woah no--I got to keep on moving...